There's a bottomless number of bottoms in the world. Take any snapshot of anything to do with pop culture and there's a high likelihood you're going to get an irresistible image of somebodies keister.
Amongst the societal celebration of backdoors has also come an increased popularity for anal play. Sexual progression has caused many people to indulge in desires they kept burrowed away in their minds, allowing them to experience new and more intense forms of pleasure in their sex life.
However, one not so positive product of a world full of beautiful buttocks (usually of the larger variety), has been an increase in body consciousness. Shame and self-consciousness rub off when attempting or enjoying anal play. Nothing is more of a buzzkill in the bedroom when you are more focused on worrying about your body, instead of being present in the moment. Where you sit mentally during sex has more of an effect on your pleasure than you'd think. Ever noticed that the more you focus on having an orgasm, the more difficult it can feel to have one?
I read an online post about a middle-aged woman who was currently having the best sex of her life. Why? Because she had matured, accepted her body, and begun to focus more on pleasure rather than her falsely invented flaws. One regret looking back at her twenties (her most sexually active years!) was how much she worried about her appearance during sex. Looking back at photos now, she finally sees the vibrant young woman with effortless curves and tight glowing skin! The point is, time spent criticising yourself in the bedroom is pleasure wasted. People aren't spending as much time judging you as you think, because they're probably thinking about themselves. Therefore, the last thing your partner is thinking about is that odd marking on your butt, it's a spanking target if anything!
Video sourced from TEDx TalksDropping the body shaming baggage can be a sometimes difficult but always rewarding thing to do. Once you drop that you'll probably also find it easier to enjoy certain sex acts. These are the sorts of things you might not feel comfortable discussing over coffee. When it comes to anal stimulators, there might be mixed reactions. More and more people are enjoying anal play or at least have discovered whether they enjoy it or not, so they're comfortable discussing! So, the likelihood of receiving a negative reaction to "alternative" sex acts are as low as they ever have been. So, rid yourself of self-shame, embrace your body, your desires and live a happier life for goodness sake! Here's some anal sex toys to help you get started.
A great place for any backdoor beginners to start. Butt plugs are designed to create a feeling of fullness back there. Some people may pull a plug in and out, similar to using a dildo for vaginal play. However, for the most part a butt plug is left in and sometimes used to fulfill double penetration fantasies; where one can enjoy anal and vaginal penetration or anal and oral sex.
One fantastic option for beginners is this Sleek and Sensual Silicone Plug. Alternatively, if your friskiness sits more on the fashion forward side of things, this Diogol Anni Butt Plug will redefine putting something "where the sun don't shine." Featuring a Swarovski crystal at the base of this plug, your backdoor will become a sexual beacon of glory.
Prostate massagers are all about stimulating the prostate gland. The prostate gland is an orgasm that produces fluid that carries and protects sperm, as well as feels amazing to stimulate. Considering that this organ does carry out an important bodily process, stimulating it can actually benefit circulation and has been linked to reducing the likelihood of prostate cancer. Unfortunately, it can be difficult to reach the prostate gland only using your fingers, therefore prostate massagers or male g-spot toys were invented!
If you're male and wanting to experience a prostate orgasm yourself, try this Classix Prostate Stimulator from the Anal Fantasy Collection. If you don't mind splashing out on the latest in derriere development, consider the Hugo Prostate Massager from Lelo. Featuring 8 adjustable vibration settings, super smooth silicone and the option of remote-controlled play. You or your partner can provide tantalising sensation from anywhere in the house.
Although anal beads do provide some massage while inserted, their main purpose is the pleasure they provide upon removal. People like to enjoy them by slowly removing them throughout sex as orgasm comes nearer. One popular way is to rip them out at the point of climax. This technique is not recommended for beginners however! Ensuring there is plenty of lubricant and communication between partners will keep things body safe!
Two popular picks are these Deluxe Vibro Balls or Black Anal Beads. One reviewer of the Black Anal Beads said: "He's new to playing around and really enjoys these! A warning though, if your using these on your man make sure you get your turn first as he won't last long!"
Lubricant is absolutely essential for anal play. Don't even think about trying anal play without first getting some lube. Skin in and around the anus is especially delicate and should be treated as such. The golden rule when dealing with your gluteus maximus is to be generous with the lube. Too much is always better than not enough!
There are a few things you need to consider when choosing your lubricant. Silicone lube cannot be used with silicone toys, as it will degrade the toy! Always be sure to check the description for material, before pairing it with silicone lube. Therefore, water-based lubricant is a completely viable option to use with your anal toy. The difference being that water-based lubricant will dry up quicker than silicone and might need to be reapplied during play. Pay extra attention when applying water-based lube and keep in communication with your partner whether they feel comfortable or not.
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