Thanks to Fifty Shades of Grey, the world of BDSM has become much more accepted in society. More and more people are delving into the world of bondage, purchasing blindfolds and gags to spice up their sex life and try something new.
BDSM stands for Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, and Sadism/Masochism. These broad terms cover many different kinks and activities - and there are a lot in the BDSM world! While BDSM might seem a bit too hard core for some people, there are many ways that power, sex, and pleasurable pain can be experimented with in a safe environment. And if you're not interested As long as you and your partner are both happy and consenting to everything that's going on, and have good communication, then everything should be good as gold!
A hugely important component of BDSM that often isn't shown in movies and shows, is aftercare. Aftercare is the time spent after participating in BDSM, where both partners check in with each other and make sure everything is okay...
If you're interested in getting involved or adding some BDSM aspects into your sex life, here are some "must-haves" to get you started...
Blindfolds are a great way to introduce BDSM into your relationship, as they can be easily incorporated without getting in the way. Plus, they aren't too intimidating!
The Fetish Fantasy Limited Edition Satin Blindfold is a gorgeous blindfold made from incredible soft material and comfortable elastic strap. Another great option is the Satin Love Mask, with an affordable price point and great design.
Using a blindfold in the bedroom is perfect for increasing your sexual pleasure. By restricting one sense, your other senses will be heightened, meaning that everything feels a whole lot better. The element of surprise can also be extremely erotic for many people, and a blindfold can allow you to tease your partner!
Whips are another product that are easy to bring in the bedroom and can add a whole lot of pleasure for you and your partner! The most important thing when bringing a whip in the bedroom, is knowing you and your partner's limits. You don't want to whip them too hard, or you could cause pain or discomfort. Make sure you have a safe word, and always start out softer and work your way up. Always remember to avoid sensitive areas like the face too, unless you've discussed it prior, as this can be dangerous.
In BDSM, some people can find that pain can be pleasurable for them. But it can be a fine line between pain and pleasure, so make sure you are communicating at all times!
The Fetish Fantasy Series Limited Edition Cat-O-Nine Tails is a lovely beginner's whip, at an affordable price and made from sturdy material designed to please.
If you want something a little more advanced, the Icicles Hand-Crafted Glass Flogger is a great option! This stunning product features hand-blown glass, and an elegant design that makes it the perfect addition to any collection!
Restraints are another fun product to add into the bedroom. You can get rope to tie your partner's hands and feet up, or kits that are designed to restrain all limbs.
The Fetish Fantasy Deluxe Silk Rope is a super soft and silky product perfect for restraining your partner's hands and feet. Another great option is the Wraparound Mattress Restraints - these are easily tucked beneath your mattress and the durable satin-lined cuffs are super comfortable for the ultimate experience.
Gags are another popular bondage product that you might like to add into your sex life! Gags are typically worn by the submissive partner as a form of dominance. The Fetish Fantasy Breathable Ball Gag is designed for comfort, with a firm, non-toxic rubber ball with breathing holes to ensure safety at all times. The high quality leather strap can be adjusted for the perfect fit.
Another option for a gag is the Touche Gag Ball. With a similar design, this product is high quality and elegant.
Whether you're new to bondage or a seasoned pro, it's important to ensure you are practising safe play at all times. Make sure you set boundaries, have clear communication at all times, and stop if anything feels uncomfortable or painful at any point. It's a good idea to set a safe word to make sure you don't overstep any boundaries, and always make sure you chat with your partner afterwards to make sure you are both comfortable with everything!
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