Sex doesn't have to be complete with the most expensive sex toys and fanciest lingerie that you can get your hands on. (Although, if that's your vibe, by all means...!)
Spicing up your sex life and taking the reins on your pleasure can be as easy as bringing a blindfold into the equation! Blindfolds are considered a type of bondage, and are a great introduction into the world of bondage in general and you can use them in a myriad of ways!
Blindfolds are great for many reasons. For many people, it can be extremely erotic having a sense restricted - in this case, not being able to see can be a huge turn on!
Restricting one of your senses can make the other senses, specifically touch, even more sensitive. It also adds the element of surprise into your sex life, which is a great way to make foreplay much more exciting! Having a partner wearing a blindfold can also be a very sensual experience for the other person in the relationship.
Blindfolds can also help your partner feel more comfortable to try new things with you. Without the added pressure of you watching them, some people can find themselves much more comfortable - similar to how turning the lights off is a must for many. And while you should be focusing on making your partner feel comfortable no matter what, this is a great way to build up to it!
While bringing a blindfold into the bedroom might seem pretty tame to you, it could be completely different for your partner. It's important to remember that everyone has different wants and desires, and something you're super keen to try out might make them uncomfortable or uncertain.
Suggesting the idea to your partner doesn't have to be scary, thought! It's important to be open and honest about what you want to avoid confusion or miscommunication at all times.
Bring up the idea when they're in a good mood, and simply suggest it as something you'd be interested in trying out to enhance your sex life. It's not that you're not enjoying your current sex life, but that you want to try something new - and that's important to emphasise to make sure they don't feel like they aren't good enough!
The best thing about blindfolds, is that you can practically use anything you have laying around to get the same effect! Any scrap material, a scarf, tie, long sleeved top... Seriously, get creative with it! A lot of people will already have something laying around that is perfect to fashion into a blindfold.
There is also a huge range of blindfolds you can buy for the ultimate experience! You also don't have to spend a lot of money to get something good.
Fetish Fantasy are known for their amazing range of high-quality bondage items, so either of these affordable blindfolds would be a great pick! Both are created with silky soft materials that are perfect for heightening your partner's sexual desires.
If you're looking for something a little more unique and elegant, why not this gorgeous Eyelash Mask? This is the perfect step up from your ordinary blindfold, with a luxurious mix of satin and lace to create a truly beautiful piece.
The Lelo Silk Blindfold is another great option for a touch of pleasure. This stunning red blindfold is created for comfort and sexiness, and would be the perfect addition to your bedroom playtime!
Once you and your partner are on the same page, and you've got your blindfold ready to go, you might be a little stuck on where to begin. The good thing is, blindfolds don't get in the way of anything you'd normally do in bed, they just make it a little more fun and exciting! If you or your partner are a little nervous, start out with any foreplay or positions that you'd usually do to get you more comfortable.
When you're ready to try something a little different, why not start out by kissing your partner in unexpected places while they are blindfolded? This is guaranteed to get them hot and bothered and is the perfect way to get things heating up. Simply playing around with different levels of pressure and stroking erogenous areas can also be a hundred times more sensual sight restricted too!
You could bring some sex toys into the equation too, or something to tease them like a feather, ice cube or whip. Make them guess what object you're teasing them with to turn it into a game!
The most important thing is that you don't cross boundaries and keep everything totally consensual! And, most of all - have fun!
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